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December 02, 2022
  • 00:00And.
  • 00:04I will just pull up my slides.
  • 00:10There they are. Hopefully for all of you too.
  • 00:18I I never knew Sidney Blatt,
  • 00:21but I I know of him and I know his work.
  • 00:25And among the themes that he tackled,
  • 00:30one of them alongside self
  • 00:32definition was relatedness.
  • 00:34And so I I've chosen the topic accordingly,
  • 00:38relating with the emotional brain.
  • 00:40Here's my disclosure to
  • 00:41get that out of the way.
  • 00:43I'm sure you you can all just take a
  • 00:46little snapshot of that with my move on.
  • 00:49There's a lot of ground to cover.
  • 00:52I'm I'm beginning with this quotation
  • 00:55from Freud because a lot of psychoanalysts
  • 00:58get anxious when they hear that a
  • 01:02neuroscientist is suggesting some
  • 01:04revisions to their beloved theory
  • 01:07based on neuroscientific findings.
  • 01:10And they think that this is that this is a
  • 01:12breaching the boundaries of what is properly,
  • 01:15properly considered evidence suitable for the
  • 01:19development of psychoanalytical theories.
  • 01:22I, I, I won't read the whole quotation to you
  • 01:25as safe to refer to the parts that are bold.
  • 01:29Freud says there that the classification
  • 01:31of what he called the drives.
  • 01:33He doesn't think it can be done on
  • 01:35the basis of psychological material.
  • 01:37He thinks it requires definite
  • 01:39assumptions to be taken over from
  • 01:42some other branch of knowledge.
  • 01:43And here he makes clear what the other
  • 01:45branch of knowledge is that he has in mind.
  • 01:48He says it's necessary to borrow
  • 01:50from the science of biology.
  • 01:52When it comes to delineating
  • 01:54the life of the drives,
  • 01:56and he said that who knows what
  • 01:59neurobiology will teach us in the future.
  • 02:01It may be new information of a kind
  • 02:03that will blow away the whole of our
  • 02:07artificial structure of hypothesis.
  • 02:08So I'm at least as far as Freud
  • 02:11was concerned,
  • 02:12what I'm doing is legitimate,
  • 02:14especially when it comes to the
  • 02:16aspect of mental life that I'm going
  • 02:18to be talking to you about today,
  • 02:20what used to be called. Drive theory.
  • 02:23What might be more sort of descriptively
  • 02:27termed the basic emotional needs
  • 02:30of the human being.
  • 02:33Here is for its definition of drive.
  • 02:36It's a measure of the demand
  • 02:38made upon the mind for work.
  • 02:41And.
  • 02:41As I proceed,
  • 02:43hopefully you'll get a slightly better idea
  • 02:47of what's meant by a measure of the demand.
  • 02:51Made upon the mind for work.
  • 02:53What sort of work does the mind perform?
  • 02:56So with all of this in mind,
  • 02:58and especially this quotation,
  • 03:00I'm now going to show you a slide
  • 03:03which sort of summarizes very
  • 03:06abstractly how we conceptualize
  • 03:09drive in neurobiology today.
  • 03:11And it's all based on very
  • 03:14simple concept of homeostasis,
  • 03:16which I hasten to point out was a
  • 03:19concept that fruit was not familiar with.
  • 03:22Introduced in the 1930s,
  • 03:24a few years before for its death,
  • 03:27the basic idea I've used
  • 03:29mischievously Freudian terms here,
  • 03:31but the the basic idea is
  • 03:33that there's a set point,
  • 03:35there's a there's a viable range
  • 03:37within which we have to remain in
  • 03:40terms of our biological needs,
  • 03:42and deviations from that viable
  • 03:45range are demands for work.
  • 03:49One has to do something in order to return.
  • 03:52Oneself back to ones viable arms.
  • 03:56That's the basic concept of homeostasis,
  • 04:00and when I say we have to do something,
  • 04:02we have to do it on the basis of something
  • 04:06which is predicted to be be likely to
  • 04:09achieve that return to our viable bounds.
  • 04:12The word prediction might seem odd there,
  • 04:14but hopefully it'll become clearer
  • 04:16as we go along when it comes to
  • 04:19most of our autonomic needs,
  • 04:21all of which are regulated.
  • 04:23On the aesthetically this prediction
  • 04:25takes the form of a reflex.
  • 04:28So for example if you overheating,
  • 04:32the prediction is that perspiring and
  • 04:35breathing more rapidly will cool you down.
  • 04:38And the same applies to our emotional needs,
  • 04:42emotional needs.
  • 04:43We have emotional viable bounds
  • 04:45and I will clarify what I mean
  • 04:48by that as I as I proceed,
  • 04:51but these are biological viable.
  • 04:53Towns, as you'll see,
  • 04:55and when we deviate from those viable bounds,
  • 04:58we feel the the demand for work,
  • 05:02the in the form of a of an unpleasant,
  • 05:05distressing emotional state.
  • 05:07Then we need to do something in order
  • 05:11to return us to our biologically
  • 05:14viable range and that prediction.
  • 05:18Whereas when it comes to autonomic needs,
  • 05:21it takes the form of a reflex.
  • 05:23But when it comes to emotional needs,
  • 05:25it takes the form,
  • 05:27at least initially in development,
  • 05:29it takes the form of what
  • 05:31we call an instinct.
  • 05:32In other words,
  • 05:33some sort of stereotyped response pattern,
  • 05:35and I'll illustrate all of this
  • 05:36with examples as I proceed.
  • 05:38I'm starting with very general abstractions,
  • 05:41but the crucial point for now is to
  • 05:45understand that the instincts that we
  • 05:48are born with the innate predictions as
  • 05:51to as to what to do when we find out.
  • 05:54Solves in these in these.
  • 05:57And situations of universal
  • 06:00biological significance,
  • 06:01that these instinctual responses are
  • 06:04too stereotyped. They they don't.
  • 06:06They don't work in anything other
  • 06:09than the most generic of situations.
  • 06:11And so the great task of mental
  • 06:14development is to learn what else to do
  • 06:17over and above the innate preparedness
  • 06:19that comes with instinctual responses.
  • 06:23So the great task of mental development,
  • 06:25on the view that I'm going
  • 06:26to outline for you.
  • 06:27Today is to learn how to meet our
  • 06:31emotional needs by way of supplementing
  • 06:35supplanting our instinctual
  • 06:37predictions with learned ones,
  • 06:40learning from experience how
  • 06:42to meet our emotional needs.
  • 06:44And this learning takes the form of
  • 06:48establishing better predictions.
  • 06:49Memories are of course about the past,
  • 06:53but they are for the future,
  • 06:55learning on the basis of past experience.
  • 06:58Is in order to better predict
  • 07:00what to do in the future.
  • 07:01And This is why I'm using
  • 07:03the word prediction.
  • 07:04Learning is all about predicting.
  • 07:08All of this will become clearer,
  • 07:09I hope,
  • 07:10as we proceed.
  • 07:11The function of unpleasant feelings
  • 07:13is simply to tell you that what
  • 07:15you're doing isn't working,
  • 07:16and that you're heading in a
  • 07:18in a bad direction.
  • 07:20Bad in the biological sense,
  • 07:22where the basic value system
  • 07:24is that it's good to
  • 07:26survive and to reproduce and bad to die.
  • 07:29Pleasurable feelings mean the opposite,
  • 07:31that you're heading back
  • 07:32toward where you need to be,
  • 07:34when you are where you need to be,
  • 07:37then you're in what?
  • 07:38Throat called Nirvana.
  • 07:39This thing that lies beyond the pleasure
  • 07:41principle, a state of quiescence,
  • 07:44a state of no perturbation.
  • 07:46The ideal biological state,
  • 07:49as it turns out.
  • 07:52So the ideal situation is to have predictions
  • 07:56which automatically meet our needs,
  • 07:59just as in the case of breathing
  • 08:02and temperature control and
  • 08:03peristalsis and all of this.
  • 08:05But it's much harder to learn
  • 08:07how to meet emotional needs.
  • 08:08Reflexes and instincts,
  • 08:09as I say, are too stereotype.
  • 08:11They don't fit the bill when it
  • 08:14comes to the great variety and
  • 08:17complexity and unpredictability of
  • 08:19the of the context that we actually.
  • 08:21Find ourselves in and.
  • 08:23So we have to develop far more flexible,
  • 08:26nuanced ranges of responses which
  • 08:29are which are context sensitive.
  • 08:32So one or two more words
  • 08:35about prediction and learning.
  • 08:37I said that we want to automatize
  • 08:40these predictions.
  • 08:41We we we start with consciousness,
  • 08:43now known as short term memory,
  • 08:45where you're feeling your
  • 08:46way through the problem,
  • 08:47and then once you have resolved
  • 08:50the situation and then you.
  • 08:52Consolidate a memory,
  • 08:53a long term memory which then becomes
  • 08:57the basis of what you do until it
  • 08:59doesn't work in the prediction doesn't work.
  • 09:02In which case we have what's
  • 09:05called reconsolidation,
  • 09:06a revision of that of that prediction.
  • 09:08And this is the this is the process
  • 09:10of learning from experience.
  • 09:12Declarative memory is just the same as
  • 09:14what Freud called the preconscious.
  • 09:17In other words,
  • 09:18these are memory traces which can be
  • 09:20retrieved back into the conscious.
  • 09:23But the ideal, as I say,
  • 09:25is to automatize our responses.
  • 09:27The delay,
  • 09:28the uncertainty involved in this sort
  • 09:31of predictive process is certainly
  • 09:33less desirable from a biological
  • 09:35point of view than the automatized
  • 09:37immediate response to a needs to be.
  • 09:39When this happens.
  • 09:40I do that,
  • 09:41and so there's great pressure
  • 09:43to consolidate into the non
  • 09:45declarative memory systems,
  • 09:46which are simply different from
  • 09:49the preconscious ones in that
  • 09:51they cannot be returned.
  • 09:53With the conscious state.
  • 09:54In other words,
  • 09:55they're equivalent to what in Freudian
  • 09:57times we called the unconscious.
  • 10:00And these predictions are
  • 10:03consolidated into emotional and
  • 10:05procedural memory for the most part.
  • 10:08If you want to see a picture of all of this,
  • 10:11then declarative memories
  • 10:13are cortical memories.
  • 10:16These are in the form of images,
  • 10:18which can be brought back to mind,
  • 10:19and thoughts that can be funky, as it were.
  • 10:23But it involves delay,
  • 10:24with all of the attendant dangers.
  • 10:26As I mentioned a moment ago,
  • 10:28the ideal is to automatize these predictions.
  • 10:31Into motor sequences,
  • 10:32which are not thought they're
  • 10:35just enacted and and so and
  • 10:37this entails mainly as I said,
  • 10:39procedural memory and emotional memory.
  • 10:41Not exclusively the structures that
  • 10:43I have on the screen here but at
  • 10:45least it gives you a basic idea.
  • 10:47So that's the basic framework.
  • 10:49Now let's have a look at what
  • 10:51these emotional needs are.
  • 10:52Remember I said that their homeostatic,
  • 10:54but they're multiple homeos.
  • 10:56That's just as they are for bodily needs,
  • 10:58so too for emotional needs
  • 11:00there are multiple homesteads.
  • 11:02Each of which regulates an
  • 11:04individual emotional need or drive.
  • 11:07As for it would have called it,
  • 11:08I'm going to that.
  • 11:10There are various disagreements about
  • 11:12how to classify these emotional drives,
  • 11:14but I'm going to use the mainstream taxonomy,
  • 11:17which was the one developed by yak panksepp,
  • 11:20just to give you a sense of how
  • 11:23we think about this nowadays
  • 11:26in affective neuroscience.
  • 11:28The first drive I used this,
  • 11:31I put this one first,
  • 11:32not only because I'm a psychoanalyst
  • 11:35and and because certainly this is
  • 11:36the drive that Freud prioritized.
  • 11:38The sexual drive,
  • 11:40which in Panksepp's nomenclature
  • 11:43is called lust. It's it.
  • 11:45It is also prioritized because it is
  • 11:48clearly of enormous biological importance.
  • 11:51The whole, the whole,
  • 11:52what drives the engine of
  • 11:54natural selection is,
  • 11:56is reproduction,
  • 11:56and so it's not surprising that
  • 11:59it should be so important.
  • 12:01And where we we've advanced in all
  • 12:03sorts of ways since Freud's day.
  • 12:05But of course there is,
  • 12:07and we now are in absolutely no doubt
  • 12:09because we know the anatomy and
  • 12:11Physiology and chemistry of the thing.
  • 12:13There is a sexual drive at
  • 12:15work in the human brain,
  • 12:16just as there is in any other animal brain.
  • 12:19It's sexually dimorphic on the average.
  • 12:22The sexual male typical sexual circuitry
  • 12:25coincides with the male typical body and
  • 12:28the female typical sexual circuitry,
  • 12:30for the most part.
  • 12:31That with the female typical body.
  • 12:33But there's enormous scope for variability,
  • 12:37in large part due to the fact that
  • 12:40the body and the brain masculinized
  • 12:42separately in utero by by two
  • 12:45different processes at different
  • 12:48stages of uterine maturation.
  • 12:50And I,
  • 12:51I,
  • 12:52I,
  • 12:52I that obviously in some respects
  • 12:56confirms Freudian ideas about
  • 12:59bisexuality and all of that.
  • 13:01And also disconfirms old ideas because
  • 13:04so much of this is established in utero.
  • 13:07So much of it,
  • 13:08I don't mean to say all of it.
  • 13:10I want to emphasize just one other
  • 13:12point here about the sexual drive,
  • 13:15which is that although I said to
  • 13:17you that this drive is so important
  • 13:19because it underpins reproduction,
  • 13:21which is so important biologically,
  • 13:23for obvious reasons,
  • 13:24I want to draw your attention
  • 13:26to an important fact,
  • 13:27which is that what motivates us the subjects.
  • 13:31Of the mind.
  • 13:32In other words,
  • 13:33the the thing that is studied in
  • 13:36psychology and the the being of
  • 13:38the brain as opposed to the to the
  • 13:41tissues and and and circuitries of the brain.
  • 13:44The thing that motivates us subjectively
  • 13:47is not our biological duty to reproduce.
  • 13:51When we when we indulge in sexual behaviors,
  • 13:54we're not trying to fulfill
  • 13:57these biological obligations,
  • 13:58in fact, very often,
  • 13:59if not for the most part.
  • 14:01We're trying and hoping not to reproduce.
  • 14:04So what is it that motivates us?
  • 14:07It's not the reproductive imperative,
  • 14:09but rather the feeling in that little
  • 14:11diagram I showed you earlier with
  • 14:13the Red Arrows and the blue arrows.
  • 14:15We're looking for the blue arrow.
  • 14:16We're looking for the pleasurable feeling,
  • 14:19which leads to satiation.
  • 14:22And so the subject of the mind is
  • 14:25motivated by the feelings which announce
  • 14:28these deviations from homeostasis,
  • 14:30and that's terribly important.
  • 14:33Say it's again,
  • 14:34what motivates us is the pleasure,
  • 14:36and whatever it is, whatever,
  • 14:38whatever does it for us,
  • 14:40whatever gives us that pleasure,
  • 14:42that's what that's that's
  • 14:43what we'll choose to do.
  • 14:44And this explains the great
  • 14:47variety of sexual behaviors.
  • 14:48And, and there again is an important
  • 14:51departure from the Freudian idea,
  • 14:54which was that the sexual function
  • 14:56must be brought under the edges of
  • 14:58the reproductive function, you know,
  • 15:00in order for it to be fully mature.
  • 15:02And this is simply not true.
  • 15:04And all of us clinicians,
  • 15:06unprejudiced clinicians nowadays
  • 15:08recognise that it's perfectly possible
  • 15:11to have mature sexual relationships
  • 15:14which have which have no possibility
  • 15:16of leading to reproduction.
  • 15:19And the difficulties,
  • 15:21the pathologizing of of,
  • 15:23of all of this is again something
  • 15:26that hopefully psychoanalysis will
  • 15:29is and and and will recognize.
  • 15:32It's hard to. It's hard to develop.
  • 15:34Don't the the the pathologies of
  • 15:36sexual life are revolve mainly
  • 15:38around another important fact,
  • 15:40which is going to become a thread
  • 15:42through what I'm going to say,
  • 15:43which is that we do not need
  • 15:45to learn how to meet each one
  • 15:47of these emotional needs.
  • 15:49Only that's hard enough.
  • 15:51Think about,
  • 15:52in the case of sexuality,
  • 15:53the reflexes and instinctual behaviors
  • 15:56we born with the innate knowledge
  • 15:58that the rubbing of a certain part
  • 16:00of your anatomy at a certain rhythm
  • 16:03and pressure will relieve that.
  • 16:04Attention that that these behaviors
  • 16:07like lordosis and and mounting and and
  • 16:10intermission and trusting and so on,
  • 16:12these things we don't need to learn.
  • 16:13But the gap between that and what
  • 16:15what you really need to know in order
  • 16:18to get people to sleep with you,
  • 16:20especially the particular individuals
  • 16:21that you want to sleep with.
  • 16:23The gap between that instinctual knowledge
  • 16:25and what you really need to know is enormous.
  • 16:28So there's an enormous amount of learning
  • 16:30from experience how to meet this need.
  • 16:33That's hard enough,
  • 16:34as I was saying.
  • 16:35But it's not only that we need to
  • 16:37learn how to meet each one of these
  • 16:39emotional needs in their own right,
  • 16:41and we also need to reconcile
  • 16:43them with each other.
  • 16:44And so the conflict between different
  • 16:47emotional needs is what leads to
  • 16:50pathology in this area, that is to say,
  • 16:53to suffering and distress.
  • 16:54But all of this will become clearer,
  • 16:56I hope, as I unfold.
  • 16:58Everything I'm saying,
  • 16:58as you can imagine,
  • 17:00has to be said in absolutely succinct,
  • 17:03preceed form.
  • 17:04Almost each sentence that I'm
  • 17:06uttering here could become the basis
  • 17:08for a lecture in its own right,
  • 17:11so forgive me for skimming the surface.
  • 17:14The other way in which Freudian
  • 17:17Dr theory needs updating
  • 17:19is that Freud didn't recognize
  • 17:21that much of the work that's done
  • 17:24by the next Dr, namely seeking.
  • 17:27He conflated it with the sexual drive.
  • 17:30The sexual drive,
  • 17:32it's it's circuitry is clear,
  • 17:34it's chemistries are clear.
  • 17:36The sex hormones testosterone, estrogen,
  • 17:39the peptides vasopressin and oxytocin,
  • 17:42quite different from the
  • 17:43circuitry of this drive.
  • 17:45Um, which is the command
  • 17:47neuromodulator of which is dopamine.
  • 17:50In Panksepp nomenclature,
  • 17:52it's called seeking.
  • 17:53It's also been,
  • 17:54it's probably most widely known
  • 17:57as the brain reward system.
  • 17:59But but we we in affective neuroscience
  • 18:02have sort of moved away from that word
  • 18:05because it's too, it's too generic.
  • 18:07There are many different
  • 18:08rewards in the brain.
  • 18:10I've just showed you too.
  • 18:11This is the second one.
  • 18:13It's not the same as sexual reward.
  • 18:15And nor is it the same as several
  • 18:17other forms of reward that I'm going
  • 18:19to introduce you to as we move along.
  • 18:21Seeking is triggered by lust.
  • 18:26It's but it's also triggered by hunger
  • 18:29and triggered by separation distress.
  • 18:31Because whatever it is that you need,
  • 18:34whether it be of a sexual or
  • 18:37nutritional or attachment kind,
  • 18:38whatever it is that you need,
  • 18:40it's out there in the world.
  • 18:42And So what the seeking Dr does is it it,
  • 18:45it engages.
  • 18:46It prompts us to engage with
  • 18:48the world to to it energizes us.
  • 18:51It motivates us and and perhaps the
  • 18:54best way to to describe the state
  • 18:58of mind that is engendered by the
  • 19:01seeking Dr is to is to state stated
  • 19:04in its opposite that the negative.
  • 19:08Lack of energy and Energia.
  • 19:12Lack of expectation that something
  • 19:14good is going to happen,
  • 19:16lack of interest,
  • 19:17lack of engagement and hedonia
  • 19:19abulia and all of these things,
  • 19:21which of course are the hallmarks
  • 19:25of the depressive state of mind.
  • 19:27The opposite of those things,
  • 19:29or what seeking does.
  • 19:31So in fact it's it's not an
  • 19:34exaggeration to say that as the that
  • 19:38seeking in the extreme is mania.
  • 19:41So that the the pole,
  • 19:43the polls,
  • 19:44from depression to mania in mood
  • 19:46disorder has everything to do
  • 19:48with the operation of this tribe,
  • 19:51this dopamine mediated drive.
  • 19:54I said it gets triggered by these other
  • 19:57basic needs because whatever you need,
  • 19:59it's out there.
  • 20:01But in triggering seeking,
  • 20:03you're triggering a drive in its own right.
  • 20:06It's a drive.
  • 20:07It's a need all of its own,
  • 20:09which is the need to engage
  • 20:11with what is interesting,
  • 20:12with what feels interesting.
  • 20:14It's therefore drives us
  • 20:17particularly to engage with novelty.
  • 20:19And with interesting new situations
  • 20:22and the way we understand this is
  • 20:26scientifically is that anything
  • 20:28that's interesting in other words
  • 20:31novel in other words not yet known
  • 20:33is biologically a dangerous thing.
  • 20:36Uncertainty and unpredictability and
  • 20:38novelty are dangerous things and so we are,
  • 20:41we believe that this drive is
  • 20:44proactively seeking to to reduce
  • 20:46it's engages with uncertainty.
  • 20:49In advance in order to in order to reduce it,
  • 20:52so that when we encounter this
  • 20:55situation under more urgent
  • 20:57circumstances, then we have some knowledge,
  • 20:59some understanding of it.
  • 21:01And so think of a dog in an open
  • 21:03field doesn't just sit there and
  • 21:05explores and it explores in particular
  • 21:08those things that that are novel.
  • 21:10In the process it learns how to satisfy
  • 21:13hunger and thirst and sexual needs and so on.
  • 21:16It learns where these
  • 21:18things can be satisfied.
  • 21:20This is the way in which all of these more
  • 21:23basic needs or channel through seeking,
  • 21:25but at the same time,
  • 21:26it just gets to understand.
  • 21:28It's an epistemic philic drive,
  • 21:30a drive to know.
  • 21:32I should mention,
  • 21:34as probably most of you know,
  • 21:37that an excessive activation of this
  • 21:39drive beyond manic states of mind
  • 21:42leads to megalomanic states of mind and
  • 21:45ultimately psychotic states of mind.
  • 21:47So the it's a very interesting
  • 21:50scientific question as to why excessive
  • 21:53seeking should should lead to the
  • 21:55clinical phenotype of psychosis.
  • 21:58Gives us some some new points of insight
  • 22:00into what the psychotic state of mind.
  • 22:02Was all about.
  • 22:03No, as I keep saying I have to,
  • 22:06I have to just skim the surface.
  • 22:08So Freud this, this drive,
  • 22:10it's close to what Freud
  • 22:12called the libidinal drive.
  • 22:14As I said,
  • 22:15this broadened idea of sexuality,
  • 22:17but I it's it's clearly distinct
  • 22:21from the sexual drive.
  • 22:23I and I'm later on going to introduce
  • 22:25you to some other drives which Freud
  • 22:28incorporated under the heading of libido,
  • 22:30which are again turn out to be clearly
  • 22:34distinct emotional needs all of their own.
  • 22:37And you see how all of this is building
  • 22:40up the idea of what the basic kinds of
  • 22:44human relationship are and what what
  • 22:46kinds of relatedness are we seeking,
  • 22:49at least at the most basic biological level.
  • 22:51And I hope it's also
  • 22:53beginning to become apparent.
  • 22:54That a knowledge of these basic emotional
  • 22:58needs and urges has implications for
  • 23:01our understanding of psychopathology.
  • 23:04I've spoken here, I spoke earlier
  • 23:08about about sexual difficulties,
  • 23:10and I'm I'm speaking here
  • 23:13about mood disorders,
  • 23:14as I as I've already said,
  • 23:16but this this system also
  • 23:19has important role to play,
  • 23:22not only in psychosis, as I've also.
  • 23:24Already said,
  • 23:25but in addiction it is a craving system,
  • 23:29and the fact that it's mediated by
  • 23:32dopamine has everything to do with why
  • 23:36certain drugs of abuse are just that.
  • 23:39They are.
  • 23:40Drugs like cocaine and amphetamine
  • 23:43activate this system exquisitely so.
  • 23:46In fact,
  • 23:47another way of illustrating what the system
  • 23:49does is to just think about how people
  • 23:51behave when they're snorted cocaine.
  • 23:53It's kind of.
  • 23:54Over optimistic.
  • 23:55Over energised.
  • 23:56Over interested expectation.
  • 23:58Something good is gonna happen.
  • 24:00I don't know what it's gonna be,
  • 24:00but I'm gonna be there.
  • 24:01You know that kind of irritating,
  • 24:04overexcited state of mind that the
  • 24:06pleasure in which I say again is
  • 24:08quite different from sexual pleasure.
  • 24:10It's an appetitive pride
  • 24:12rather than a consumer.
  • 24:13Try 1. Umm, so let's move on.
  • 24:17Here's the third one.
  • 24:19It's an aggressive drive,
  • 24:21but we call it rage because
  • 24:22there are many kinds
  • 24:23of aggression in the brain.
  • 24:25In fact, the drive that I
  • 24:27mentioned earlier seeking it,
  • 24:30it underpins predatory aggression.
  • 24:33Cold aggression like a a
  • 24:36lion chasing a Springbok.
  • 24:38It's the lion is not chasing the
  • 24:40Springbok because it's enraged.
  • 24:42It doesn't hate the springbuck.
  • 24:44It loves this.
  • 24:45Spring back his lunch.
  • 24:46And so this kind of cold,
  • 24:48predatory aggression driven by
  • 24:49seeking is quite different from
  • 24:51what we are talking about here,
  • 24:53which is hot aggression, rage.
  • 24:55And and think about that homeostatic,
  • 24:58the homeostatic viable bounds
  • 24:59when it comes to rage is that
  • 25:02there's nothing frustrate, no,
  • 25:04no frustrating impediment standing
  • 25:05between me and what I mean.
  • 25:08Nothing preventing me from getting what
  • 25:10I need, nothing standing in my way.
  • 25:13And so this.
  • 25:14This. This,
  • 25:16this frustrating impeding is the demand.
  • 25:20It's a I'm now moving out of my,
  • 25:23out of my preferred state
  • 25:24when it comes to this drive,
  • 25:26and there's something I must
  • 25:28do to return myself.
  • 25:29That's the that's the demand for work.
  • 25:32The innate prediction that we are
  • 25:35born with is affective attack.
  • 25:37In other words, bear your teeth,
  • 25:39borrow your bra,
  • 25:40raise your 4 limbs, and and and.
  • 25:44Put your nails out if you can and and attack.
  • 25:48Lunge at the at the source
  • 25:50of the of the frustration,
  • 25:53trying to get rid of it.
  • 25:54And I said at the beginning that these
  • 25:59innate instinctual predictions are too basic,
  • 26:02they're too gross,
  • 26:03they're too crude,
  • 26:04they're they're too generic that you can't
  • 26:08attack everything that frustrates you.
  • 26:11For example,
  • 26:12it might be bigger than you.
  • 26:15For another example,
  • 26:16it might be your attachment object,
  • 26:19somebody that you need and and so
  • 26:22the difficulties that I mentioned
  • 26:24that the outset of of of the,
  • 26:27the,
  • 26:28the,
  • 26:28the innate prediction being too simplistic,
  • 26:31but also the difficulty I mentioned
  • 26:33a few minutes ago of these drives
  • 26:36conflicting with each other.
  • 26:38I'm I'm busy illustrating that point here.
  • 26:41So in order to get yourself
  • 26:43back into your viable bounds
  • 26:45when it comes to this drive,
  • 26:47you have to learn from experience what
  • 26:50else to do other than it's simple,
  • 26:53effective attack.
  • 26:55Um, the.
  • 26:56Let me think if there's anything
  • 26:58else I should tell you about this.
  • 27:01Yeah,
  • 27:01I think I should.
  • 27:03And when I say that the this
  • 27:06drive is triggered by impediments,
  • 27:09by things stopping you,
  • 27:11they're standing between
  • 27:13you and what you need.
  • 27:15This appoints to its its central
  • 27:17role in what in psychoanalysis
  • 27:20is called superego formation.
  • 27:22The superego is that object which prohibits,
  • 27:27which prevents which says.
  • 27:28Ohh and so the activation of this
  • 27:31drive and the objects that activate
  • 27:33this drive have everything to do
  • 27:36with the beginnings of superego
  • 27:38development and also with the problem,
  • 27:41the conflicts involved,
  • 27:42which I've been alluding
  • 27:43to now more than once.
  • 27:45So when I speak of those conflicts,
  • 27:47let me let me go on to the
  • 27:49next of the of these drives,
  • 27:51which we call fear anxiety.
  • 27:54When I said that you can't
  • 27:56just attack everyone,
  • 27:57that frustrates you.
  • 27:58Uh, for example,
  • 27:59they might be bigger than you.
  • 28:01Well, if, for example,
  • 28:02they might be your father,
  • 28:04your whose father never frustrated them.
  • 28:07So the instinctual prediction
  • 28:09is attack the *******.
  • 28:11But of course you can't, for one thing,
  • 28:14because he's he's bigger than
  • 28:15you and you scared of him.
  • 28:17And so there we have the
  • 28:20conflict between rage and fear.
  • 28:22And again, this contributes
  • 28:23fundamentally to the development
  • 28:25of what we call the superego it is.
  • 28:28Why the superego is feared?
  • 28:30The prohibiting object is feared
  • 28:33to and so there's the paranoid
  • 28:35dimension to the relationship between
  • 28:38the self and this kind of object,
  • 28:41the object which which which
  • 28:43is forms the nucleus of what
  • 28:46we call the Super regular.
  • 28:48Before I move on to other such conflicts,
  • 28:52let me just dwell with the fear.
  • 28:54Drive itself for a moment
  • 28:56and point out that here,
  • 28:57the homeostatic settling point,
  • 29:00the Nirvana, is I am not in danger.
  • 29:02There's no threat to life and limb.
  • 29:04That's where we need to be.
  • 29:06And so for the most part,
  • 29:08as long as we're staying out of danger,
  • 29:10this drive is not activated.
  • 29:11But should, should you, should you,
  • 29:14should you move into a dangerous situation?
  • 29:18Then there's a demand on
  • 29:20the mind to perform work,
  • 29:21to do something and unpleasant
  • 29:23feeling called fear,
  • 29:25which which motivates,
  • 29:26which drives you to do something about it,
  • 29:29to relieve this particular
  • 29:32variety of unpleasure.
  • 29:34And we have an innate prediction
  • 29:36that we are born with an instinct
  • 29:39which is to freeze or to flee.
  • 29:43But if all you could do whenever you
  • 29:46feel scared is to freeze or to flee,
  • 29:50you would have an anxiety disorder.
  • 29:53So we have to learn what else to do,
  • 29:56how better to manage our anxieties.
  • 29:58And of course,
  • 29:59it depends a great deal on
  • 30:01what's triggering that anxiety.
  • 30:03You have to learn what to fear,
  • 30:05and you have to learn what fears of,
  • 30:08for example,
  • 30:09an instinctual kind triggered by the
  • 30:12innate the objects of our common phobias,
  • 30:14things like heights and snakes and
  • 30:17creepy crawlies and dark places
  • 30:19and confined spaces and so on.
  • 30:21You know,
  • 30:22you have to learn what else to fear.
  • 30:24Uh,
  • 30:24and you have to learn better
  • 30:26ways of dealing with those fears.
  • 30:29Over and above,
  • 30:30other than freezing and fleeing
  • 30:32and there again, you see it.
  • 30:35Everything depends on context.
  • 30:37You can't just have one stereotyped response.
  • 30:39There are different responses which
  • 30:41apply in different situations,
  • 30:43and the learning of how to overcome
  • 30:46these innate predictions in relation to
  • 30:48these innate triggers is is the great task,
  • 30:51as I keep saying,
  • 30:53of emotional development,
  • 30:54learning how to meet our emotional
  • 30:57needs and remember I've spoken here.
  • 31:00Here we have a conflict between two
  • 31:03emotional needs between the drive
  • 31:05called Rage and the drive called fear.
  • 31:08I'm about to introduce you
  • 31:10to another such conflict,
  • 31:12and it also will allow me to to
  • 31:16explain why we call this drive
  • 31:19fear rather than anxiety.
  • 31:21It's because there are two
  • 31:23types of anxiety in the brain.
  • 31:25Panic anxiety and fear anxiety
  • 31:27are not the same thing.
  • 31:30Fear has to do with trepidatious
  • 31:33response to threat.
  • 31:34To life and limb. And as I said,
  • 31:38the instinctual prediction is to escape,
  • 31:40to avoid the to to to freeze or run away.
  • 31:44Whereas this anxiety is an anxiety
  • 31:48about separation and loss,
  • 31:50and it has to do with our attachment needs.
  • 31:53All mammals have this drive,
  • 31:55in fact, birds have it too.
  • 31:57And it's it's a drive to stay close
  • 32:00to our attachment objects, that is,
  • 32:03to our caregivers and whereas.
  • 32:06In the case of PIA,
  • 32:07the instinctual prediction is plea.
  • 32:09In the case of panic,
  • 32:11the instinctual prediction is
  • 32:13look for the caregiver approach.
  • 32:15It's quite different from fear and this
  • 32:19also points to why whereas one might treat.
  • 32:25Yeah, anxiety with a benzodiazepine 1 might
  • 32:29treat panic anxiety with an antidepressant,
  • 32:33because this has to do
  • 32:35with separation and loss.
  • 32:36It's a quite different system.
  • 32:38As I said, a quite different need.
  • 32:41And you'll notice that 2 words up here.
  • 32:44I'll I'll come to the second
  • 32:46word in a moment,
  • 32:47but let me first of all speak
  • 32:49about the panic side of things I've
  • 32:50said it has to do with separation,
  • 32:52distress.
  • 32:53We all have to attach because we mammals
  • 32:56can't look after ourselves when we're little,
  • 32:59we're helpless.
  • 33:00We need to be fed by somebody
  • 33:02amongst other things.
  • 33:04And so we attach in the case of
  • 33:06human beings where with well within
  • 33:08the first six months of life to
  • 33:11a reliable caregiver and then
  • 33:12if we become separated. Problem.
  • 33:14Usually it's a.
  • 33:16Then we feel this panicky state of
  • 33:19anxiety which triggers an instinctual
  • 33:22response, which is distress separation,
  • 33:25distress vocalizations and search behavior.
  • 33:27Mommy, where are you? You lost it.
  • 33:29Me.
  • 33:31And that, again, sadly,
  • 33:34doesn't always work as, as,
  • 33:37as well as we we all know we don't
  • 33:40remember it.
  • 33:40But we learned early on that that's
  • 33:44not enough of a response to separation.
  • 33:48That you need to have much
  • 33:50more sophisticated, nuanced,
  • 33:51flexible repertoire of responses of
  • 33:53ways in which you get mummy's attention back.
  • 33:57It gets get her to to, to give you the.
  • 34:01The love and care that you serve,
  • 34:03that you so desire.
  • 34:06It's a very different type of pleasure,
  • 34:08the establishment of reunion,
  • 34:10very different from the other
  • 34:12pleasures that I spoke about earlier.
  • 34:14And it is mediated by opioids,
  • 34:16new opioids.
  • 34:18And having mentioned that,
  • 34:21you can immediately see something
  • 34:23interesting about this system
  • 34:25in addition to the seeking one.
  • 34:28This one also is very important in
  • 34:31addiction here in the case of opiates.
  • 34:36Common abuse of opiates,
  • 34:38of course it's very well known in the
  • 34:41United States, but, but, but also,
  • 34:43you know, more extreme than just
  • 34:45the painkilling types of opiates.
  • 34:48You know, the, the, the, the,
  • 34:49the abuse of morphine and heroin.
  • 34:52It's an addictive system par
  • 34:55excellence because it's made to it's,
  • 34:59it's made for addiction.
  • 35:00The attachment is an addiction.
  • 35:02It's the primal addiction and so.
  • 35:06People who are unable to satisfy this need
  • 35:09through the mental work that I spoke of.
  • 35:11In other words, the predictive work,
  • 35:13the learning from experience,
  • 35:14how to meet this need,
  • 35:16which is which is jolly hard to learn.
  • 35:19How to get people to love
  • 35:20you and stick with you,
  • 35:21stay with you and be with
  • 35:23you when you need them.
  • 35:24Those who fail in this fundamental task,
  • 35:28one possible outcome is turning to
  • 35:32artificial forms of of new opioid.
  • 35:36Supplies through the abuse of of these drugs.
  • 35:43So that's some of the important
  • 35:46things I wanted to say about panic.
  • 35:50But if you it then shifts over.
  • 35:52Panic is the acute response to separation.
  • 35:56If if you don't establish reunion
  • 35:58within a reasonable time frame
  • 36:00and then then this drive shifts
  • 36:02over to what's called grief,
  • 36:04or at least the instinctual.
  • 36:06Response shifts over to what's
  • 36:08called grief in this nomenclature.
  • 36:11Symbologies nomenclature that these two
  • 36:14terms are replaced by protest and despair.
  • 36:18They mean the same thing.
  • 36:19That that cascade from acute separation
  • 36:23distress to slump to giving up is is
  • 36:28is universal in the mammalian series
  • 36:31and it is the IT is the underlying.
  • 36:37Undoubtedly the underlying normal
  • 36:39prototype for for the for the for the
  • 36:43depressive phenotype for depression
  • 36:45it it's it involves whereas the panic
  • 36:49component is new opioid mediated as
  • 36:53I said the the the grief or despair
  • 36:57phase is involved shutting down of
  • 37:00seeking what I mentioned earlier so
  • 37:03via a cap from the new opioids by a.
  • 37:06The capo builds dynorphin through to the
  • 37:09shutdown of of this dopamine circuit.
  • 37:12That's our understanding of the,
  • 37:14of the, the, the, the,
  • 37:16the Physiology of that separation
  • 37:19distress cascade.
  • 37:20Um,
  • 37:21so the link between these two addictive
  • 37:26brain systems is is a very deep one?
  • 37:29And there's a long biological story
  • 37:32as to why the animal US included,
  • 37:35why we shift from protest behaviour
  • 37:38to despair.
  • 37:40But it's it basically revolves around
  • 37:42the fact that there's a cost benefit
  • 37:46ratio involved in protesting in distress,
  • 37:49vocalizations and and and searching.
  • 37:52You announce your vulnerable state to
  • 37:55predators and you wander away from home base.
  • 38:00And you use up your metabolic resources
  • 38:03at the time that you need the most.
  • 38:06And so this is our understanding
  • 38:09why this horrible,
  • 38:10this horrible emotional response exists,
  • 38:14which is literally to give up
  • 38:17and and just lie there.
  • 38:19That paradoxically or ironically
  • 38:21rather maximizes the chances
  • 38:23that you that you will survive,
  • 38:26that you won't be gobbled up by
  • 38:28predators that you will be found.
  • 38:30By your caregiver, if please God,
  • 38:32she returns. And so on.
  • 38:34That's our understanding of the of the
  • 38:38normal phenotype of, of despair of, of.
  • 38:42And it has everything here nice overlaps
  • 38:46with psychoanalytical understanding of
  • 38:49of depression having to do with loss.
  • 38:54For you all those years ago, of course,
  • 38:57wrote that famous paper on mourning
  • 38:59and Melancholia, which reminds me
  • 39:02that I was Speaking of conflicts.
  • 39:04So here we have another great conflict,
  • 39:08ubiquitous conflict in
  • 39:10in in human development,
  • 39:12which is the conflict between rage,
  • 39:15which I mentioned earlier, and attachment.
  • 39:19You the one drive the rage drive
  • 39:21is to get rid of frustrating.
  • 39:24Impediments.
  • 39:25And the other drive is to keep
  • 39:28your attachment object with
  • 39:29you forever and always.
  • 39:31But what if your attachment object
  • 39:33is the source of frustration?
  • 39:35I mean whose mother never frustrated them?
  • 39:38And so this is a ubiquitous conflict,
  • 39:40a giving rise to guilt,
  • 39:42guilt being the inhibition of the
  • 39:44rage aspect in the conflict in order
  • 39:47to preserve the attachment in order
  • 39:50in order not to drive away and lose
  • 39:52the love of the attachment object.
  • 39:54That there's a need to inhibit the rage
  • 39:57to internalize it in the form of guilt.
  • 39:59And there we have the other major
  • 40:02dimension of super regular development.
  • 40:04So the conflict between rage
  • 40:06and fear on the one hand,
  • 40:08and rage and and and and
  • 40:11attachment on the other,
  • 40:12these are the foundations of the
  • 40:15conflicts that we have with with our
  • 40:18super regular and I I hope that I'm,
  • 40:21I'm, I'm even in so few words able.
  • 40:25I'm, I'm being able,
  • 40:27I'm managing to convey something of
  • 40:30the deep substructure that we are
  • 40:34beginning to labor that underpins
  • 40:37the the clinical psychological
  • 40:40phenomena that was observed or that
  • 40:43were observed by The Pioneers of
  • 40:46psychoanalysis all those decades ago.
  • 40:49And how we are beginning to attain
  • 40:52new understanding of of of of
  • 40:54what the fundamental mechanisms.
  • 40:56Law underpinning all these things.
  • 40:59Now,
  • 41:00I told you that there are two
  • 41:03types of anxiety in the brain and
  • 41:06that's why we don't call fear.
  • 41:10The fear emotional need,
  • 41:12we don't call it anxiety,
  • 41:15we call it fear in order to
  • 41:17differentiate it from panic.
  • 41:19There's also two different types
  • 41:20of attachment need in the brain,
  • 41:22which is why we don't call this
  • 41:24the attachment drive.
  • 41:25And it's one of two attachment drives,
  • 41:28and here's the other one.
  • 41:29It's a it's a drive to to, to nurture,
  • 41:33to take care of vulnerable little ones.
  • 41:37Obviously, biologically,
  • 41:39it's clearly the case.
  • 41:41That the the the prototype of
  • 41:45such a a vulnerable, needy,
  • 41:48dependent object is 1's own offspring.
  • 41:51But I put this slide on the screen in
  • 41:54order to make the point that it's not
  • 41:56only our own offspring that evoke this need.
  • 42:00That's the prototype of it,
  • 42:01but it's distressing for us
  • 42:04who who to to come across a.
  • 42:09Babies crying.
  • 42:12Vulnerability and and and distress of
  • 42:16this kind we we we want to put it right
  • 42:19and so that unpleasure that the demand
  • 42:22for work that's evoked by this drive.
  • 42:26I'm speaking about it in the
  • 42:28prototypical situation where the
  • 42:29parent who's whose child whose babies
  • 42:31crying and they're they can't put it
  • 42:33right there no matter what they do.
  • 42:35Of course we've got instinctual predictions.
  • 42:37Pick the baby up,
  • 42:39Rocket Singh Materies sort of soothing.
  • 42:42Sounds. But as every parent knows,
  • 42:44that doesn't always work.
  • 42:45And so you've got to learn from
  • 42:47experience what else to do.
  • 42:49And again, it's a whole business
  • 42:51of context of learning and learning
  • 42:53a lot more than just the what the
  • 42:56what the basic triggers that we
  • 42:58are born with provide us with.
  • 43:01Learning from experience about what this
  • 43:04crime might mean in this situation,
  • 43:07what might I do here?
  • 43:08What might I do there?
  • 43:10But I I wanted to make the
  • 43:12point that this very same need,
  • 43:14as with all of the needs that
  • 43:15I've spoken about,
  • 43:16don't apply only in the prototypical
  • 43:20childhood situations that that that I've,
  • 43:22that I've used as my main exemplars,
  • 43:25that they persist throughout life.
  • 43:27These are the basic emotional
  • 43:29needs of the human being we need.
  • 43:32There to take care of vulnerable
  • 43:34and distressed others.
  • 43:35And and if we can't put it right,
  • 43:38then it agitates us in the
  • 43:41prototypical situation.
  • 43:42Think of postpartum depression the the
  • 43:45mother who's overwhelmed and by the way,
  • 43:47the chemistry of this, of this drive,
  • 43:50it's again driven by or mediated by estrogen,
  • 43:54but and and oxytocin,
  • 43:57but also prolactin and progesterone,
  • 44:00all of which of course increase enormously.
  • 44:02During pregnancy and and and even
  • 44:05more so at childbirth, these,
  • 44:08the chemistries of of this system
  • 44:12mediate this kind of feeling.
  • 44:14And I I spoke there about postpartum
  • 44:16depression is an extreme version of it.
  • 44:18But what I was wanting to to get on to
  • 44:21say is that that distressing feeling,
  • 44:23that unpleasure of not being able
  • 44:25to make it right,
  • 44:26not knowing what to do,
  • 44:27not feeling confident that one can,
  • 44:30feeling overwhelmed by the need.
  • 44:33Of the of the distressed dependent.
  • 44:36That same sort of feeling arises
  • 44:38in all sorts of social situations.
  • 44:40I live in a very unequal society,
  • 44:44unfortunately,
  • 44:45where we all too frequently are
  • 44:48confronted by people in enormous need,
  • 44:51people who are poor,
  • 44:52people who starving,
  • 44:53coming and banging on your on your
  • 44:56car window, begging.
  • 44:57And it's distressing and we don't like it.
  • 45:00And it's that's again speaks
  • 45:02to this homeostatic.
  • 45:04The the the viable bounds
  • 45:05here is that you know,
  • 45:07the the vulnerable and dependent are OK.
  • 45:11If they're not, it distresses us.
  • 45:13But what do we do about that?
  • 45:16This is the the business
  • 45:17that I'm talking about.
  • 45:19The great emotional the great
  • 45:21task of mental development,
  • 45:22of learning how to meet these emotional
  • 45:25needs and and the conflicts again.
  • 45:27There's sadly there's a conflict
  • 45:29here between this attachment drive
  • 45:31and rage. Again it frequently triggers
  • 45:33irritation you know because I don't want
  • 45:36this person with all of their needs,
  • 45:39you know to be causing me this
  • 45:42unpleasant emotion and and even in the.
  • 45:46Difficult, but the baby situation.
  • 45:48Unfortunately, you clinicians
  • 45:49all know that this can lead to
  • 45:52to very unfortunate outcomes.
  • 45:54The conflict between the care need
  • 45:56and and and the and the rage,
  • 45:58the irritation and frustration
  • 46:01that that that it can arouse.
  • 46:04So that's six of the seven
  • 46:06I want to tell you about.
  • 46:09One more of the basic emotional
  • 46:12basic categories of emotional
  • 46:15relatedness in in the human brain.
  • 46:17Before I come to the last one,
  • 46:19I just want to point out that these two
  • 46:21attachment drives that are just mentioned,
  • 46:24they too were included by Freud
  • 46:26under the heading of libido.
  • 46:28So this overly generalized
  • 46:30understanding of the sexual drive.
  • 46:34We thought that all pleasures are
  • 46:36somehow ****** but clearly these are
  • 46:39these are there's a variety of quite
  • 46:41distinct forms of pleasure in the brain,
  • 46:44and they mediated by quite distinct circuits.
  • 46:48They're quite distinct,
  • 46:49quite distinct chemistries,
  • 46:51triggering quite distinct behaviors.
  • 46:52And and all of this,
  • 46:54as I hope I've been able to at least
  • 46:57indicate in this brief presentation,
  • 46:59all of this has implications for our
  • 47:04understanding of psychopathology.
  • 47:06The last of the 70s that play drive.
  • 47:09It comes as a great surprise to
  • 47:11people to learn that all mammals,
  • 47:13us included need to play.
  • 47:16It is a biological Dr and it's why
  • 47:19it's so surprising is because it's
  • 47:21easy to see why fear that is to
  • 47:24say the need to be safe or rage.
  • 47:27That is to say the need to get rid
  • 47:29of things that are that are that are
  • 47:31standing between you and and and and
  • 47:33and what you need in order to survive.
  • 47:35That you have to be able to
  • 47:37stake your claim and defend it.
  • 47:39Otherwise you've had it,
  • 47:40biologically speaking.
  • 47:41Likewise separation, distress.
  • 47:42It's clear what its biological role is.
  • 47:45But play play, by its very nature,
  • 47:49is not even real. It's just play play.
  • 47:52And so why such a apparently frivolous
  • 47:55activity should be a basic emotional
  • 47:59drive is, as I say, a great surprise.
  • 48:03So when you when we study this empirically.
  • 48:06You ask any child what's your favorite thing,
  • 48:09they say play.
  • 48:11Say why and they say it's fun.
  • 48:13That's the scientific question.
  • 48:15Why is it so much fun?
  • 48:17And Please note,
  • 48:18fun is another particular type of pleasure.
  • 48:21Not the same as as orgasm.
  • 48:26And this and the pleasure of
  • 48:28of of finding a safety from,
  • 48:31from danger and the pleasure
  • 48:32of getting rid of that,
  • 48:34of that frustrating boss,
  • 48:35that's who's getting in your way and
  • 48:37preventing you from having anything you want.
  • 48:39And the pleasure of plays is
  • 48:42something quite different.
  • 48:43But the the scientific question is why?
  • 48:45Why is there so much pleasure
  • 48:47attached to this absurd activity?
  • 48:49There is rough and tumble play,
  • 48:51which is the prototypical form of play.
  • 48:55When you study play empirically,
  • 48:58despite it being such fun and
  • 48:59children loving it so much,
  • 49:01what you observe amazingly, is the
  • 49:05majority of play episodes end in tears.
  • 49:09So despite kids loving to do it so much,
  • 49:12it tends to end up, it ends, it ends badly.
  • 49:15And one of the children
  • 49:16says to the other one,
  • 49:17I won't play with you anymore,
  • 49:19you are not being fair,
  • 49:21and that word fairness has a lot to do.
  • 49:25With why play breaks down.
  • 49:27So in studying play,
  • 49:29we came to to discover that there's a thing
  • 49:33called sort of loosely called the 6040 rule.
  • 49:36It's probably better called the 7030 rule.
  • 49:39It varies from species to species,
  • 49:41and it's not an exact number,
  • 49:43but what it refers to is the fact
  • 49:45that in play there's always one
  • 49:47who dominates and one who submits,
  • 49:50and that dominance submission
  • 49:53ratio if it exceeds.
  • 49:55Uh, roughly 6070 or so.
  • 49:582:30 or 40 or so.
  • 50:01In other words,
  • 50:02if the submissive 1 gets less than
  • 50:0530 or 40% of turns to be able to be
  • 50:07the one who's calling the shots,
  • 50:09the one who's on top,
  • 50:10the one who's doing the chasing.
  • 50:11But then it's not fun for them anymore.
  • 50:13And then they weren't playing,
  • 50:14so there's a reciprocity,
  • 50:16a turn taking.
  • 50:18That's that seems to be fundamental
  • 50:21to successful play and and I'm I'm
  • 50:24using the biological prototype.
  • 50:26You know rough and tumble.
  • 50:28Where the one animal invites the
  • 50:30other one to play by running it.
  • 50:32The the invitation is accepted if if,
  • 50:35if the if the if the runner is is
  • 50:36chased and then they do this sort of
  • 50:39thing you're seeing on the screen.
  • 50:40Now there's this kind of
  • 50:42wrestling thing that goes on,
  • 50:43they love it and then they swap
  • 50:45and the one that was being chased
  • 50:47because the chaser and the one
  • 50:49who was underneath is on top
  • 50:51and not in equal measure.
  • 50:52But as long as it's roughly
  • 50:546040 then the game persists.
  • 50:57And it's not only in the prototypical.
  • 50:59Think about the kinds of games
  • 51:01that are played in in in in
  • 51:03Western cultures games like.
  • 51:05Mommy, baby it is mommy baby.
  • 51:08Teacher, pupil Dr patient,
  • 51:10cop, robber.
  • 51:11You know there's a hierarchy in
  • 51:13all of these games and the the
  • 51:16the Your little brother is happy
  • 51:18to be the robber and be locked up
  • 51:20and you are the cop as long as he
  • 51:23gets a turn to be the cop later
  • 51:25or he gets the turn to to to say
  • 51:27well now let's play you know this
  • 51:29other game and and so there's a
  • 51:32need for mutuality and reciprocity.
  • 51:35And if you breach that rule,
  • 51:37the 6040 rule, the game breaks down.
  • 51:39And Please note,
  • 51:41rule boundaries is another very
  • 51:44important part of how play works.
  • 51:47Another boundary in play that's
  • 51:49that's very important is that the
  • 51:52boundary between play and reality.
  • 51:54So playing at cops and robbers is a game.
  • 51:58And you know, as I was just saying,
  • 52:00but if you lock your brother up
  • 52:02and throw away the key, you know,
  • 52:03then it's not play anymore.
  • 52:05It's just locking up your brother.
  • 52:06And that's no longer about play, it's
  • 52:08about fear and rage and things like that.
  • 52:11So the crossing of that boundary
  • 52:13is also how play breaks down.
  • 52:15So we think that play, in short,
  • 52:17has everything to do with learning.
  • 52:19About how to find your place in the group.
  • 52:22How to meet your needs in
  • 52:23relation to the needs of others.
  • 52:25The negotiation and the
  • 52:27development of empathy.
  • 52:28The capacity to take account that.
  • 52:31The need to take account of the
  • 52:33feelings of the of the Playmate in
  • 52:35order to sustain the fun of the game.
  • 52:38And we think that social hierarchies
  • 52:40the pecking order or established.
  • 52:42Think back to your days on the
  • 52:44playground was a serious business,
  • 52:46whether you up or down high status or.
  • 52:49Your status in the group or not,
  • 52:51the group,
  • 52:51whether anyone wants to play with you or not,
  • 52:54these are things that really matter to kids.
  • 52:56And this is all of this points
  • 52:59to that we're a social species.
  • 53:01Social group relations need to be,
  • 53:04need to be modulated.
  • 53:05Especially the formation of higher
  • 53:07all mammal species or hierarchical
  • 53:09but the most viable hierarchies of
  • 53:11the one in which there's something
  • 53:13in it for everybody that there's
  • 53:15that there's it's not too,
  • 53:17there's not a bully in charge but rather.
  • 53:20Somebody who who's who's able to
  • 53:22tolerate turn taking and recognize
  • 53:24the the needs of the of the
  • 53:26submissive party in the in the group.
  • 53:29Now look there's as I told you a
  • 53:31million more things I could say
  • 53:33we learned through play how to
  • 53:34because it's safe it's not real.
  • 53:36We learn how to how to regulate our
  • 53:39fears and our rages and our lusts
  • 53:41and so on through games and so play
  • 53:44also is terribly important for for
  • 53:47for for for the learning to regulate.
  • 53:50All the other emotional needs,
  • 53:51but I I must, I must come to an end.
  • 53:54I see I've in fact gone a few
  • 53:56minutes over my time,
  • 53:57so I just want to say the following.
  • 53:59Remember,
  • 54:00this is all remember my title and
  • 54:02these are the basic categories
  • 54:05of human emotional relationship.
  • 54:07Unlike Freudian Dr Theory which
  • 54:10was objectless,
  • 54:11these drives are all object related
  • 54:13and you can't speak of a of a panic
  • 54:16grief drive without Speaking of
  • 54:18an attachment object and a fear.
  • 54:20Drive without Speaking of a dangerous
  • 54:22object and a a rage drive without
  • 54:24Speaking of a of a frustrating
  • 54:26object and so on.
  • 54:27So these are intrinsically object
  • 54:29related drives and we've learned a
  • 54:31hell of a lot more about the basic
  • 54:33emotional needs than we knew about
  • 54:35Infrared's day as he predicted we would.
  • 54:38And if you want to learn more then
  • 54:40please look at this paper which I
  • 54:42have on the screen here at the end.
  • 54:45It's an Open Access journal if
  • 54:47you just Google my
  • 54:49name and neurobiological.
  • 54:51Underpinnings and and frontiers
  • 54:52it'll come up and and and that'll
  • 54:56lead you to to the the wider
  • 54:58evidence base that I'm drawing on
  • 55:00and and and the very interesting
  • 55:03literature in this field all of
  • 55:05which is of substantial clinical
  • 55:07relevance both in psychotherapy and
  • 55:10in and in psychiatry more generally.
  • 55:14Thanks for your attention.
  • 55:15I'll end there. Thank you.
  • 55:18Thank you so much Doctor Solms.
  • 55:20That was just a.